Frequently Asked Questions

What is a lifestyle club?
A lifestyle club is a community-driven environment where people with similar values and interests come together to socialize, connect, and explore alternative relationship dynamics

What happens at Excalibur?
At Excalibur we host themed events each designed to create a fun, respectful, and relaxed atmosphere. From dancing and socializing to exploring our more intimate spaces, there’s something for everyone. Whether you’re here to party or just enjoy the vibe, every event is centered around mutual respect and open communication.

Do I have to be a member?
Yes. This is a private member’s only club and not open to the general public. This helps keep all of our member’s safe and their identities private. Membership is renewed annually.

Do I need to provide an ID?
Yes. We use your photo ID to determine that you are of legal age to enter and to verify your identity. We do not share any of your personal information.

What is the address for Excalibur?
The address is 500 War Branch Lane, Mohawk, TN 37810. Once you pass through the red entrance gates turn right on Camelot Way and proceed to the large orange building.

When are the parties at Excalibur?
Parties are held every Saturday starting at 7 pm. January through May parties end at 1 am. June through December parties end at 2 am.

What is the average age of the members?
We welcome everyone to Excalibur. We have members of all ages. The theme of the party can affect the median age of the crowd on a particular night. On average, however, the median age is 30-55.

Can we stay overnight?
Yes! We have multiple options available. Click Here to see options.

If you do not want to stay onsite below is a list of motels nearby. We’ve not stayed at any nor recommend one over another.

Days Inn by Wyndham Morristown
Quality Suites Morristown
Hampton Inn Morristown, I-81
Super 8 by Wyndham Bulls Gap Greeneville Area
Quality Inn I-81 Exit 23
Days Inn by Wyndham Morristown
Holiday Inn Express & Suites Morristown, an IHG Hotel
Fairfield Inn & Suites by Marriott Morristown Hotels
all within 20 min of Camelot

What if we see someone we know?
This may happen, but rest assured they are there for the same reason that you are. When you join the club you agree to use discretion and to respect privacy rules. A violation of this, (also known as outing) will get you permanently banned from Excalibur as well as many other clubs in the area. If you see someone from the club out in a vanilla setting, just keep moving or smile as you would any other stranger.

What is it like as a single person?
For single females, the sky is the limit. You have the opportunity for ‘the best of both worlds’ and probably more single females would enjoy swinging if they were better exposed to it. For the single man, in order to be a success, you will need to be patient and easy-going. Socialize with the other members and remember that it is important to be warm, considerate, sensual and fun to be with.

Do we have to participate?
No, of course not. Many people come to just watch all the fun. No one at Excalibur is pressured to do anything except have fun. All the activities, music, entertainment, soft lighting, great food, comfortable surroundings are for one purpose. To allow people to have a lot of fun with absolutely ‘No Pressure’. If you want to join in some of the activities, great, but our members are at Excalibur to have FUN. Enjoy the Excalibur on your own terms.

What can I expect after I become a member?
Once your membership is approved at Excalibur and you pay the party fee donation at the door, one of our Hosts will take you on a tour of the facility and explain some simple rules and answer any questions you may have. If you have never visited a club you may have a very different idea of what you can expect than what actually takes place. The atmosphere is much like any of your favorite nightclub hangouts. The only difference is that you have the ability to explore aspects of yourself and/or your partner or other members of the club that you have never focused on. We have a pool table, a dance floor, multiple play rooms, a group play area, private areas throughout the club, a shower area either private or group, and a state of the art light and sound system, stage. The club is designed for you to have fun and pleasure. If at any time you need assistance or have questions, a staff member will be more than happy to help you. We want you to be completely at ease, having fun and enjoying the many activities at Excalibur. There’s lots to do: dance, eat, mingle with other couples, talk, socialize at the bar, listen to your favorite music, stroll through the Club or sit and relax on the Patio.

Are you BYOB?
Yes, we are byob but we do have a bartender and mixers behind the bar, Coke/Pepsi, Diet Coke/Pepsi, Mountain Dew, Dr. Pepper and Sprite/7up.
Alcohol will be kept behind the bar. NO GLASS BOTTLES are allowed to be kept at tables.
We will pour beer from a glass bottle into a cup, only beer cans will be allowed at the tables.
We have refrigerator space for you to use.
We do not allow personal coolers at the tables, these need to be left in the check in area.

Is there food?
Yes there is always something hot to eat and snacks throughout the night.

Do you have food available after the parties end?
We do not supply any food or soda after the end of the party. Members are not permitted to help themselves to any stock we store in the club. Please bring something with you if you choose to eat or drink after the party ends and you have purchased overnight accommodations.

What else is there to do at Camelot?
For those who want to come hike or fish at Camelot please let us know you are coming so we can give you a gate code to enter the property.

You are welcome to do so Sunday through Saturday from dawn to dusk
If it will be your first time coming to Camelot you will need to schedule a time to fill out paperwork and go over the rules for your safety.

Fees for a day pass is
$15 per couple
$10 per single
Well mannered, vaccinated and leashed dogs are permitted.
No one is permitted on the trails in the dark, unless a special event is hosted by Camelot
Payment is by Venmo, PayPal or cash

Lockers?
We have 27 lockers. They are first come first serve. Bring a padlock if you want to lock anything up. Make sure to remove them otherwise they’ll be cut off the next day. – items will be emptied after every party and put in lost and found.

Showers:
We have private and group showers available. Please bring a towel.

Miscellaneous
Bring a towel to sit on as we don’t want bare bottoms on the furniture please.
If you’re staying over and arriving before party time please check in at the orange building. If we are out working on the property there is a yellow sign with two numbers you can text or call.

What advice do you have for first time Swingers?
For first time swingers; start slow, prioritize communication, and ensure it’s something both partners genuinely want. Educate yourself about the lifestyle, attend events, and connect with experienced swingers for guidance.
How do we handle rejection?

Take rejections gracefully without pressure or offense. Swinging emphasizes consent and comfort, making it important to respect others’ decisions.

Where do I find clean linens?
There is a three drawer chest in every play room with clean sheets.
Items stored beneath the beds are for staff use only.

What is BDSM?
Bondage, discipline and sadomasochism.

What happens if I see something I do not like during a scene?
We understand that BDSM is not for everyone and we expect our members to just walk away from something they are not interested in. There may be very heavy impact scenes that are not for everyone.

Can I Bring My RV or Camp?
Yes – Excalibur offers dry tent camping or full hook up RV sites.
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What happens if I lose something at Excalibur?
If your item is found it is placed in the lost and found box in the main lobby.
This box is donated or discarded as follows: 3/15, 6/15, 9/15 and 12/15.
Please check the box periodically for something you may have left behind.